Archive for March, 2007

  • What Not to Wear, Mooses, and Cake

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    Even though it doesn’t have *much* to do with my pregnancy, I feel compelled to relay this story to my (our) faithful readers.

    I’m only work a half day today. Because of my shortened work schedule, I thought it would be nice to wear a comfy pair of sweat pants and a comfy tee-shirt. So I did.

    During our 10 o’clock break, I was sitting at my desk, reading some baby boards, and I heard my boss talking with one of my coworkers… my boss was introducing my coworker to our new BIG BOSS MAN. This wasn’t a short conversation, either… not just a “Nice to meet you” kind of thing. They talked… for at least three or four full minutes. *sigh* I hoped, no, I *prayed* that I would get skipped over…But alas, after talking to my neighbor, my boss brought the BIG BOSS MAN over to meet me. I stood up, shook his hand, and tried not to look pathetic in my “bumming around the house” outfit. *double sigh*

    On to more pregnanty things.

    About two years ago, one of my best friends, Lauren, send me the awesomest tee-shirt from Maine. It’s a green and white baseball style tee that says Maine Mooses on it. I LOVE this shirt. Every time I visit Lauren in Maine, I tell her that I want to see mooses. She said that she saw this shirt in a shop window and thought of me. Sadly, the store only had the display shirt left, and it was a size XL. So, while I happily accepted the gift, I felt only a bit of resentment that it would be my husband, not me, wearing the shirt.

    That all changed today.

    Woo hoo for being pregnant! That darn shirt finally fits. I’m stoaked. Hopefully I’ll be able to post a pic of me in all my moose glory sometime later this afternoon.

    And finally, I have a confession to make: By 10:45am today, I had already eaten a piece of leftover cake. *hides under desk*

  • The Countdown Continues

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    So, I’m just over 33 weeks along, and I think I want to vomit. (= I’m so excited I can barely stand it. (And nervous… did I forget to mention nervous?)

    I had a check up with Dhyana last week. Everything checked out okay. The little bugger is in a great position and is already situated pretty low. I’m really looking forward to my birthing time and to meeting Jude.

    My mom and my sister are throwing a baby shower for Josh and me this weekend. I’m really, really excited about it. I’m looking forward to seeing family and friends that I haven’t seen in a while. After the shower, my mom is coming over to our house to help me clean Jude’s room (thank goodness!). It really needs a good scrubbing. Once the cleaning is done, Josh and I are going to start painting. When we finish painting, we’ll shampoo the carpet, and then (finally), we’ll set up the crib. Did I mention I only have about seven weeks in which to do all of this? Eep!

    I’ve been feeling pretty good lately. I’ve been really tired after work, which makes it hard to get motivated to walk, but otherwise, I’m doing okay. My ankle is healing up nicely, but slowly (my own fault… I just don’t rest it as much as I should). Jude is still super squirmy… he’s pounding on my belly right now! In other words… life is good. (=

  • Seven

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    33 weeks today…only about 7 to go.

    (yes, I did just throw up a bit in my mouth!)

  • Karate Chops and Chubby Cheeks

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    32 weeks today…holy crap, that means only about 8 more to go! I’m definitely getting very excited and a bit of nervousness is settling in, too. We really need to make some time to clean out the nursery and paint. But who can do that when it’s so easy to sit around at home after a long, exhausting day and then reality TV shows that shall remain unnamed suck you into their vortex. *sigh*

    The ultrasound was really, really cool again last week. Seeing Jude exercise his diaphragm, checking out his long, skinny foot, and catching a glimpse of his face (which looked much more like a face, especially with those chubby cheeks!) was all wonderful. I think maybe the most amazing part for me was getting a view of his brain developing. We could see the blood pumping in the brain! If you’ve never seen an ultrasound in person, it really is sweet. And we didn’t even have one of those high-tech, fancy-schmancy 3D/4D kind of ultrasounds, either.

    So we’re moving right along…and Jillian is starting to get pummeled. Jude still tends to calm down whenever she calls me over to feel him, but it’s getting less predictable that way. I keep telling her that she would want to stretch and push on her confining environment if she were cramped up like that, too, but somehow that doesn’t cut it when she gets kicked really hard in the ribs. Who knew?

  • Our Follow-Up Ultrasound (Thumbs Up) and New Health Benefits at Work (Thumbs Way, Way Down)

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    Yesterday I had a follow-up ultrasound at the OB’s office. It was really, really great to see Jude again. He’s head-down right now, and is growing really, really well. The ultrasound tech gave us two extra points because the little bugger is already exercising his diaphragm, which I guess babies don’t always do when they’re only 31 weeks along. Here’s a picture of the little bugger… the tech had to really annoy him to get him to turn so we could see his face. He was (apparently) quite comfy.

    So, on to the crappy new benefits my company is(n’t) offering.

    Under our old owners, I was entitled to eight weeks of paid (100%) maternity leave, plus four weeks of unpaid leave under FMLA. Josh and I have been saving up to make sure we have enough money to cover my unpaid time off. Today I find out that under our new benefits, there isn’t going to be any parental leave offered. Instead, they give me an *entire* (note the sarcasm) six weeks of short-term disability. The first week is unpaid, but I can use any personal time I have saved up. The last five weeks are paid at 80%. Then I have an additional six weeks of unpaid leave that I can take under FMLA. *sigh* Besides the fact that it utterly sucks that I’m finding this out nine weeks before our guess date, I find it… man, I can’t even think of a word… disgusting might work… that my company feels that six weeks is adequate time to heal from a birth and adequate time to bond with a newborn.

    If you haven’t picked up on it, today is really sucking the big one for me. I *might* have been able to better deal with the news of my changing benefits if I had actually gotten any real amount of sleep last night. Instead, I went to bed before 10pm, sick to my stomach with exhaustion and couldn’t fall asleep. Around 2am, I got up to use the bathroom, and sometime not long after my return to bed, my throat felt like it was closing up. It wasn’t the acid reflux that I’m used to. The sensation was different (possibly worse). I was awake until 5am (downstairs on the computer from 4-5) and then headed back to lie in bed until around 8:30am (I went into work late). I feel horrible, and I want a drink. Jameson on the rocks, preferably.

  • PA Breastfeeding Legislation

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    Check out this post, and then send an e-mail detailing your support for Senate Bill 34, which gives women the right to nurse in public in Pennsylvania, to these people:

    Members of the Committee:
    Greenleaf, Stewart J., Chair (sgreenleaf@pasen.gov)
    White, Mary Jo, Vice Chair (mwhite@pasen.gov)
    Costa, Jay, Minority Chair (costa@pasenate.com)**
    Scarnati, III, Joseph B., ex-officio (jscarnati@pasen.gov)

    Majority

    Browne, Patrick M. (pbrowne@pasen.gov}
    Earll, Jane M. (jearll@pasen.gov)
    Gordner, John R. (jgordner@pasen.gov)
    Orie, Jane Clare (jorie@pasen.gov)
    Piccola, Jeffrey E. (jpiccola@pasen.gov)
    Rafferty, Jr., John C. (jrafferty@pasen.gov)

    Minority
    Boscola, Lisa M. (boscola@pasenate.com)**
    Fontana, Wayne D. (fontana@pasenate.com)**
    Stack, Michael J. (stack@pasenate.com)
    Stout, J. Barry (stout@pasenate.com)

    **These senators are co-supports of Senate Bill 34. When you write to them, please express your thanks!

    This is the first time I have ever engaged in letter writing for an actual cause. I urge you all to do the same. (=

  • Funny Story

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    I was asked to accompany a friend and her husband to the hospital so that I could keep the husband entertained (because entertaining is what I do best) while my friend was in surgery. So, at about 4:45am on Thursday, my friend and her husband pulled up to my house. I said goodbye to the boys and proceeded out the door. Knowing that the previous day had been very warm, I made a mental note to be careful on the stairs/sidewalk since there would likely be a nice sheet of ice.

    There was.

    I fell.

    Yes… On my way to the car, I did this slow-motion type of fall straight onto my back (actually, I had a backpack on–filled with some books, Uno, and Connect Four–and it really softened the fall). On the way down, I twisted my knee and did something really nasty to my ankle. For a few minutes (while I was lying on the ice-covered sidewalk, nauseous with pain), I thought it was broken. I told my friends to leave. They were already running late, and I could just call up to Josh in the house and he would come and take care of me. They looked at me with big eyes and said that no, they weren’t going to leave me lying on the sidewalk (these are some of my best friends, as I’m sure you can tell by their care for my wellbeing). Anyway… while my friend’s husband was yelling into the house for Josh, I realized that I could move my ankle if I really tried. I decided to just continue with the day as planned, since we were already headed to a hospital. Josh came out and checked on me, and I told him I would call with an update as soon as I could.

    Side note: Jude was/is fine. He was quite squirmy after the fall… I think he enjoyed the ride. (=

    Off to the hospital we went! I was lying across the backseat because I was pretty sure that if I stayed upright I would pass out. We got to the hospital and found our way to valet parking. After checking in with the nice attendant, my friend told him that a wheelchair (along with someone to wheel it) was needed b/c her friend (that’s me) fell on the way to the hospital. It was funny. A nice young man wheeled me over to the ER while my friend and her husband went to get checked in for her surgery.

    The people in the ER were very nice… they even found me a bed in one of the hallways when I told them that I felt like I was going to pass out. After x-raying me (with three protective vests on my belly) and telling me that I only had a nasty sprain, they sent me up to OB to be monitored. Marie, my OB nurse, was very, very nice. She put the monitors on my belly and got a glass of water for me. She made me nice and cozy with a warm blanket, and made sure to give me my book bag so that I wouldn’t be bored. Really, all of the attention was nice.

    Once I got the word that Jude was in fact fine, I started calling around the hospital looking for my friend and her husband. Right as I got a hold of my friend, her husband walked into my room. He has been looking for me too! The nice people in OB gave me a wheelchair to use for the day (I couldn’t put any pressure on my left foot), and we headed down to see my friend before she went in for surgery.

    Everyone… really, I think everyone in the hospital knew our story. Since I’m pregnant, I got all of the sympathy. My friend kept telling me that it was all about me, and not her, even though *she* was the one having surgery. (= Afterwards, and to this day, both my friend and her husband tease me (relentlessly) over my request that they “just leave me” and head to the hospital by themselves.

    I’m healing up pretty well. Josh has been making me stay off of my feet, and I’ve been icing my ankle and taking Tylenol like it’s my job. (Oh, in case you’re wondering: Tylenol does NOTHING for pain. NOTHING.) We’ve had a long (but lovely) weekend, so I opted to stay home this morning while my husband and our friend Phil went to Abe’s for breakfast. I think I’m going to eat some leftover cinnamon chip pancakes for breakfast. That sounds really yummy right now. (=