Archive for January, 2008

  • Get Up, Stand Up

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    Our boy is growing by leaps and bounds.

    It surprises me how much can change in 4 hours, let alone a few days or a week. For instance, when Jude started crawling, Jillian called me to let me know. I think she said something like, “Your son is going to crawl while you are gone this morning.” By the time I came home late that afternoon, our world was turned upside down. Jude was moving, and moving fast. And this was only the worm-like, military crawl; I had no idea how fast he could be until he started crawling on all fours recently.

    So then he starts sitting up on his own. And within a week he started pulling himself up to standing (thus, this video entry). Now it seems like all he wants to do is crawl to the nearest not-quite-safe object and use it to pull himself up. There haven’t been any major walking-like steps yet, but he’s starting to shuffle his feet a bit to move around while holding onto whatever he’s standing up against.

    This whole fatherhood thing is beyond words: wonderful, exhilarating, tiring, scary, frustrating, self-emptying, joy-filled… There are times when I can’t wait to see who and what Jude becomes, what he’ll look like, how tall he’ll be, who he will look like, what his interests and passions will be; and then there’s the part of me that wants him to stay little, crawling around, trying to climb over me, looking up at me with bright eyes, a smile, and beautiful sounds right when he wakes up in our bed each morning.

  • Letter to Jude: Month 8

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    Dear Baboo,

    I should have started doing this a long time ago.

    You recently turned 8 months old. In the matter of two or three days you learned how to sit yourself up and how to pull yourself to a standing position. A few days prior to the above listed events, you abandoned your military crawl for a traditional all fours crawl. You’ve gotten more daring over the past two weeks than I could ever have imagined an eight-month-old could be. Recently you’ve started having some separation anxiety, and though it makes it hard for me to use the bathroom while we’re home alone, there’s something heartwarming about you needing me for comfort and security the way that you do.

    Although it seems like I’ll need to start putting you down to nap on your own during the days soon, I can’t really bear the thought. I love laying down with you… nursing you while you kick your feet into my belly, legs finally coming to rest over my mid-section as you drift off to sleep. I love it when you wake up slowly and smile because you see me close by. I love being able to anticipate your needs because I am right beside you, listening to you breathe.

    These first eight months have been a true blessing. I love you.

    Love,
    Mama

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    Jude’s first Christmas was wonderful! On Christmas Eve, Josh, Jude, and I had dinner and worship with Peacemeal. It was lovely… after dinner, we watched A Charlie Brown Christmas. At home, we gave Jude two gifts: a special pair of pjs and his first Christmas ornament. After getting Jude changed into his Christmas pjs, we hung his new ornament on the tree and got ready for bed.

    In the morning, Jude had tons of fun ripping open his presents. Josh and I got him a set of three soft blocks, two books, a teething ring made from stuffed wool balls, and two additional sets of pjs. Around 11am, my mom, her husband, and my grandfather came to visit and to give Jude (and Josh and I!) some gifts. We asked my mom to limit the gift giving to two or three gifts. She obliged (for the most part *smile*). After having a nice brunch and taking a nap, we called Josh’s parents and siblings via our webcam. They got to see Jude crawling around, grabbing at the tree and other things he shouldn’t play with. During the call, my father stopped by to visit. After that we had dinner and relaxed. It was a great day.

    We spent New Year’s Eve in Philly with Josh’s brother and almost sister-in-law. Josh, Richie, and Jenny rang in the new year by banging pots outside. On New Year’s Day, we watched a bit of the Mummer’s Parade, but spent the bulk of the day caught up in an ANTM marathon. We’re a bit lame. (=

    Since New Year’s, Jude has learned to sit up by himself. He’s in the midst of cutting new teeth, and has started reaching for people (namely, me) when he wants to be held. He’s getting really big.

    That’s all for now. I’ll have Josh upload some new pictures soon.