Dear Jude,

A few days ago you turned 15 months old. I can’t believe how big you’re getting. I can’t believe how much you can do on your own.

This past month was big for you. You learned to sign “please” and “thank you” and “water.” You can tell me (when you’re in the right mood) that a cat says “meow” and a dog says “bow wow.” You’ve started to say “Papa” when prompted, though you’ll usually say “Dada” instead. You use “hello” and “hi” interchangeably, and you answer “yeah” when asked a question to which you’re in agreement.

You’ve handled our move to Chicago fairly well. The first week was a bit rough, but Week 2 in the city was a breeze. We’ve fallen into a routine that really seems to suit you, and I’ve been trying my best to stick to that routine (for your sake as well as mine). The change of scenery hasn’t changed your sleeping habits. You still run to my side of the bed when Papa or I ask you “Where do you go for milky?”

You’ve become friends with a little girl named Eleanora from the play group we go to on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays. She’s one day older than you, and she’s got blonde, curly hair. Up until this point, you’ve spent most of your time with her trying to keep her out of the play cars you like to ride in so much. However, you did share your Teddy Puffs with her, so I think you’re finally starting to understand this sharing concept.

You and I have been doing a lot of singing this month. You’re starting to learn the hand motions for The Itsy Bitsy Spider and Five Little Monkeys. You’ll also clap your hands during If You’re Happy and You Know It (and you also give me kisses during the last verse since I sneakily changed “shout hooray!” to “kiss your mom!”). Your pool of dance moves has grown exponentially this month, and you seem to find great joy in stomping your feet and waving your arms all around.

You’re charming everyone you meet in this big city. We can’t take a ride on a city bus or on the L without multiple people commenting on how cute/happy/friendly you are. You have such a fantastic personality, monkey (and you’re super cute to boot!). I’m amazed at how much autonomy you’ve gained in the past month…how much you seem to have grown into yourself. You’re fantastic, Jude. Each day you leave me in awe of something you say or do. I feel so lucky to get to spend every day with you…to watch you grow and learn and comprehend new things. Your mere existence blows my mind.

Love,
mama