Archive for November, 2009

  • Letter to Jude: Month 30

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    Dear Jude,

    Not only have you turned two and a half, but by the time I get around to publishing this post, you’ll be well on your way to (Oh. My. God.) being three years old. Dear Lord. I don’t remember signing up for this.

    In late October, we celebrated Halloween with you for the first time since you were born. You dressed up as Remy (“Little Chef”) from Ratatouille and spent the evening at a Halloween block party that took place about two blocks from our house. Though your costume was simple, I wasn’t sure that you’d keep it on. I shouldn’t have worried; you loved wearing your apron and chef’s hat, and you loved getting whiskers and a little pink nose painted on your face as well. We didn’t go door-to-door to trick or treat this year, but since you don’t eat candy (and since Papa and I don’t need to eat any candy), I don’t think it was a big loss. Next year you’ll get the full experience. Promise.

    Chicago can’t seem to decide if it’s in the end of Spring, the middle of Fall, or the beginning of Winter. Day-to-day temps have been unpredictable over the last month. Some days we stay cuddled up inside under blankets and watching movies; other days we’re outside from sunup to sundown in nothing more than jeans and long-sleeved shirts. Despite the wacky weather patterns and the cold temperatures, I’ve been doing my best to get us outside for at least a few minutes each day. You have an overwhelming amount of energy these days, and getting you outside is really the only way I’ve come up with to let you work it all out.

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    I’m not sure exactly when it began, but you’ve starting singing your ABCs sometime in the not too distant past. “L M N O P” trips you up a bit, but otherwise, you’re (nearly!) spot-on. Recently, while traveling on the El, you led an ABC sing-along. Two boys who were quite a few years older than you joined in. Papa and I smiled and their parents laughed. I’m not sure how the other passengers felt about the impromptu performance, but I thought it was wonderful!

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    Lately I’ve noticed that we have things that resemble actual conversations. I can’t say they’re very deep or philosophical, but you’ve gone from supplying me with one or two words to speaking in close to full sentences. You seem to understand what I’m saying more often than not. We’re making more decisions together. It’s really wonderful. Really.

    Thanksgiving just passed and we’ve moved on to the season of Advent. Christmas is (as of today) twenty-five days away. I love this time of year, Jude, and I love that you’ll actually be able to really enjoy some of it this year. I love the sights and the smells and the feelings of Christmas. I love cooking and baking and celebrating this wonderful time of year with our family and friends. I can’t wait to watch you bask in magic of it all.

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    Love,
    Mama

  • Thanks

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    Josh, Jude, and I celebrated Thanksgiving a day early, so for us, today (and tomorrow and Saturday) is a day of rest. I hope you all are having a lovely day with family, friends, and loved ones.

    I’ve got no shortage of things to be thankful for this year. I’ve got a loving, attentive husband and a healthy and happy son. I have two cats who regularly spend nap time curled up beside me. Our apartment is warm and (most days) stocked with food.

    In addition to all of this, I’m thankful for all the friends Josh, Jude, and I have made since moving to Chicago, especially

    Tracie, who made super tasty baked macaroni and cheese for last night’s feast and who has loaned me everything but the kitchen sink since we moved to Rogers Park (including, but not limited to, a table, some chairs, a blender, and coffee).

    Shav, a true hero. When he got a frantic message from me on Tuesday night requesting his presence in my apartment, he hustled down to help. Without him, our Thanksgiving turkey would still be sitting in my sink. There was no way I was touching that thing.

    Kirk and Sarah, our neighbor friends who not only brought a FANTASTIC cornbread stuffing and green bean casserole for dinner last night, but who were also kind enough to loan us the use of their gravy boat and chairs.

    Mark and Katrina, two of the nicest people I’ve met since moving to the city. The rolls they brought for dinner were a huge hit with Jude (and everyone else!), and their presence in my family’s life has been an absolute blessing.

    Tim, who played with Jude for what (I’m sure) seemed like forever yesterday before dinner and who also brought beer to go along with our meal. Being able to focus on the last-minute food details was such a help. I don’t think we ever would have gotten around to eating if it hadn’t been for Tim’s willingness to entertain my son.

    In addition to all of *that,* I’m also thankful for

    Josh and Jude and all the love and joy they bring to my life
    My mom and my grandpa, who I miss especially around the holidays
    This year’s arrival of my first nephew, Gavin
    An amazing family of in-laws
    The willingness of my friend Helen to travel with her daughter to Rogers Park as much as (or maybe even more than) Jude and I travel to Lincoln Park
    Having a clean kitchen
    Christmas music (sorry, Josh!)
    A day (or two, or three) free from all work-related obligations
    Webcams, the gmail video chat function, and Skype
    Leftovers
    My food swap family and the delicious meals they prepare and share each month
    Good novels
    Second, third, and fourth chances

    Blessings and happiness to you, my faithful reader(s). Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

  • Drums

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    Also thinking of getting this drum kit for Jude for Christmas… Remind me that this was my idea when I’m cursing about the noise two weeks after Christmas.

  • Workbench

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    Thinking of getting this wooden workbench for Jude for Christmas from my mom. It looks great to me… what do you think?

  • Little Partners Art Easel

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    Just added the Little Partners Art Easel to Jude’s Christmas List. I have a feeling that this winter is going to be a chock-full of painting and other art projects!

  • Menu for November 15-21, 2009

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    I made it ten days without gluten. Then I ate a biscuit with a whole wheat bread chaser. I did feel a bit better while I was gluten-free, but I don’t know how much I can attribute it to the change in my diet. The weather has been fantastic in Chicago, and Jude and I have spent a ton of time outdoors. I think the sun and fresh air might have had something to do with my elevated feelings of happiness, health, and goodwill, but I guess I’ll never know for sure.

    Today was food swap day at the Frank household. We had two new families join us this month, bringing the total number of participating families up to six! I had a fantastic time hanging out with all my food swapping friends. So, with little effort on my part, here’s what’s cooking this week!

    Breakfast
    Oatmeal with Ground Flax meal and Frozen Fruit or Raisins
    Green Smoothies and Greek Yogurt

    Lunch/Dinner
    Split Pea Soup and Fresh Bread (my contribution to this month’s swap)
    Quinoa-Stuffed Peppers (from MaryJo and her family)
    Spinach and Feta Quiche (thanks to Corrin and her family)
    Butternut Squash Au Gratin (from Anita and her family)
    Costa Rican Rice and Beans (from Sarah and Kirk)
    Taco Casserole (thanks to Marc and Sarah and their family)

    If need be, I’ll supplement these meals with the following:
    Large Salads made from mixed greens, dried cranberries, almond slices, sunflower seeds, bleu cheese, and dressing
    ALTs with Chips, Salsa, and Guacamole
    Pasta with Homemade Marinara Sauce

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    Need more dinner ideas? Check out Jenna’s Chive Talkin’ Blog!

  • A Star is Born

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    Back in September, I wrote about my highly anticipated haircut and the fairly humiliating eyebrow wax I subjected myself to. In that post, I alluded to the fact that the following day had the potential to be a special one here in the Frank household. I hesitated to say more at the time because I was a bit nervous about the upcoming event, but no more! Today I bare all.

    A few weeks before that post in September, I was contacted by Desiree, a television news producer for NewsProNetVideo. She had come across the post I wrote about the food swap I organized, and she was interested in interviewing me for an upcoming television segment on food swaps and how they can save you time and money. I agreed to the interview, and on September 20th, Desiree sent a photographer over. The photographer’s name was Gavin Gantner. He was really a fantastic guy… very personable and professional. He interviewed me and two other of my food swap’s participants and also taped footage of us swapping the food and chit-chatting. It was a nerve-wracking experience, but also a lot of fun.

    I just found out that the footage was aired and that’s it’s available for viewing online. So, without further adieu:

    Save Time and Money with a Food Swap.

  • Why We Need a King-Sized Bed

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    Self explanatory, yes?

  • What Happens on Tuesdays

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    What happens on Tuesdays is we all wake up a little earlier than Josh and I would like. Josh gets Jude ready for the day while I stumble around the house mumbling about coffee. On Tuesdays, Josh goes into work a bit later, so he’s able to sit down and have breakfast with Jude and me. On Tuesdays, Jude and I eat oatmeal. Josh does not.

    Josh leaves for work. At 9:15 on Tuesday mornings, Jude and I meet up with our friends for a play date. On Tuesdays, I get to engage in some nice adult conversation, drink coffee, and eat a breakfast treat. During our Tuesday morning play dates, Jude plays with his friends and shares my breakfast treat.

    What happens on Tuesdays is we nap. Jude and I lie down together, snuggle up under the covers, and sleep for at least an hour. On Tuesdays we play for a while after nap time, and then we eat lunch. On Tuesdays we eat simple meals.

    What happens on Tuesdays is we spend too much time watching videos. On Tuesdays we like to play in Jude’s ball pit, put puzzles together, and cook. On Tuesdays, Jude cooks pancakes and eggs for me. On Tuesdays, I cook soup and bread for Jude.

    What happens on Tuesday evenings is we eat dinner on the couch. I load the latest episode of Heroes on Hulu, and Jude and I watch while we eat. On Tuesdays, I shovel soup and bread into Jude’s mouth while he’s paying attention to the show (and not me!).

    What happens on Tuesdays is Jude has an early bedtime. I hold Jude until he falls asleep, and then I make my way out onto the couch to watch Castle and Gilmore Girls until Josh comes home. What happens on Tuesdays is Josh works late. Sometimes I fall asleep on the couch. Most of the time I send him annoying texts asking for updates and an estimated time of arrival.

    What happens on Tuesdays is a lot of fun.

    This blog post title and format were inspired by What Happens on Wednesdays by Emily Jenkins.

  • Birthday Acquisitions

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    Totally off-topic tangent: For the past few days, the weather has been fantastic in Chicago! Temps have been near 70, there has a light to moderate breeze, and the air has smelled incredibly wonderful. If I could somehow have 365 days of this kind of weather each year, I would totally take it.

    Friday was my 28th (!) birthday–a momentous occasion, I assure you. Josh, Jude, and I had a fairly low-key day. Breakfast was eaten at Charmers Cafe, and lunch was had at home. I lost more than an hour and a half of my life in the movie theater (we saw Astro Boy. It was horrible), but a nice dinner at Panera made up for it.

    After dinner, Josh sent me shopping for new shoes or a new purse. He and Jude were still finishing up their dinners, so I braved the dark streets (it was after 5pm after all) of downtown Evanston for a while by myself. Though I struck out on finding a cute pair of flats for purchase, I did find a really nice bag/purse at Uncle Dan’s.

    I have been wanting something less diaper-bag like and more purse-like for a while now. I wanted something that could fit an extra diaper or two, wipes, a change of pants (or a whole outfit) for Jude, Jude’s water bottle, possibly a container of snacks, my fancy new camera, my wallet, my keys, and my cell phone. Also, a tube of chapstick. Sounds like I need a duffel bag, eh?

    Well, the bag I got is on the small-ish side. I might not be able to fit my camera if I need to bring an entire change of clothes for Jude along with us wherever we’re going, but if I can omit the outfit change, I should be able to fit the rest with only a little bit of stuffing and squishing.

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    In addition to my fancy new purse, the Frank family also came home with Red Baby and Blue Baby. Red Baby is a plastic action figure from the UglyDoll line. Blue Baby is a stuffed entity from the same origin. Red Baby and Blue Baby are Jude’s new favorite toys. He takes Red Baby everywhere with him and sleeps with both Red and Blue. I really like this line of toys, but at $8/$20 each, I don’t think we’ll go on a collecting spree just yet.

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    This was one of the nicest birthdays I’ve had. There’s nothing I enjoy more than spending quality time with my family…time that I don’t need to be cooking or cleaning or worrying about something or another. I wish I could somehow win the lottery (or discover a rich, ailing uncle who needs *someone* to will all his billions and billions of dollars to) so that everyday could be like Friday (minus the Astro Boy disappointment).

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