Posts Tagged ‘Charmer’s Cafe’

  • Birthday Acquisitions

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    Totally off-topic tangent: For the past few days, the weather has been fantastic in Chicago! Temps have been near 70, there has a light to moderate breeze, and the air has smelled incredibly wonderful. If I could somehow have 365 days of this kind of weather each year, I would totally take it.

    Friday was my 28th (!) birthday–a momentous occasion, I assure you. Josh, Jude, and I had a fairly low-key day. Breakfast was eaten at Charmers Cafe, and lunch was had at home. I lost more than an hour and a half of my life in the movie theater (we saw Astro Boy. It was horrible), but a nice dinner at Panera made up for it.

    After dinner, Josh sent me shopping for new shoes or a new purse. He and Jude were still finishing up their dinners, so I braved the dark streets (it was after 5pm after all) of downtown Evanston for a while by myself. Though I struck out on finding a cute pair of flats for purchase, I did find a really nice bag/purse at Uncle Dan’s.

    I have been wanting something less diaper-bag like and more purse-like for a while now. I wanted something that could fit an extra diaper or two, wipes, a change of pants (or a whole outfit) for Jude, Jude’s water bottle, possibly a container of snacks, my fancy new camera, my wallet, my keys, and my cell phone. Also, a tube of chapstick. Sounds like I need a duffel bag, eh?

    Well, the bag I got is on the small-ish side. I might not be able to fit my camera if I need to bring an entire change of clothes for Jude along with us wherever we’re going, but if I can omit the outfit change, I should be able to fit the rest with only a little bit of stuffing and squishing.

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    In addition to my fancy new purse, the Frank family also came home with Red Baby and Blue Baby. Red Baby is a plastic action figure from the UglyDoll line. Blue Baby is a stuffed entity from the same origin. Red Baby and Blue Baby are Jude’s new favorite toys. He takes Red Baby everywhere with him and sleeps with both Red and Blue. I really like this line of toys, but at $8/$20 each, I don’t think we’ll go on a collecting spree just yet.

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    This was one of the nicest birthdays I’ve had. There’s nothing I enjoy more than spending quality time with my family…time that I don’t need to be cooking or cleaning or worrying about something or another. I wish I could somehow win the lottery (or discover a rich, ailing uncle who needs *someone* to will all his billions and billions of dollars to) so that everyday could be like Friday (minus the Astro Boy disappointment).

  • Guilty

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    Yesterday I clung to the 59-degree’d weather harder than all those Chicagoans I wrote about on Wednesday. Hypocrite, I know. Guilty as charged.

    Josh left for a weekend retreat yesterday evening, and being that he is going to be gone all weekend, he took the day off from the office. We decided to go to Charmer’s Cafe for breakfast–a newly begun weekly tradition that usually occurs on Saturday mornings. After hopping online to check the weather (hello 43 degrees at 8am!), we got ready to make the two block walk to the closest of our favorite local coffeehouses.

    I buckled my Ergo carrier firmly around my waste and turned to the boy and let him know that we were going outside and it was time to ride on mama’s back. He looked me square in the eyes and said, “No.” Okay then… well…”Do you want to try walking, Monkey?” His reply, “Yeah!” And off we went.

    Is it odd that Jude is 21 months old and that yesterday was the first time he has ever walked to somewhere in his life? He runs around outside all the time, but normally, I wear him to wherever it is we’re going, and then I get him down and let him do his thing. Anyway. Yesterday was the day. He walked the two blocks to and from Charmers; later in the day he walked one block to and from the local fruit market; and even later in the day he walked about three blocks to our local chain grocery store with me (I wore him on the way home… he was wicked tired). So, all in all, he walked about eight-tenths of a mile yesterday. Hasn’t anyone ever told this kid about starting out slow?

    As we walked to breakfast, Jude holding my left hand and Josh’s right, I really had to work at holding back the tears. Lame, right? I just can’t believe how much he has grown up since last spring…hell, I can’t believe how much he has grown up since last week! This time last year he was crawling and cruising…not even walking yet. Yesterday, he had command of his mobility (well, except when he tripped over his feet at the cafe and went face first into a table…he didn’t have much command of himself at all at that point). He walked along, wearing his navy hoodie and his Cubs hat, stopping occasionally to point out a tree or a car or some grass, and he was a real little boy. Not (entirely) a baby anymore, but a true toddler with autonomy…

    And it made this mama’s heart break–just a little.