Posts Tagged ‘Dave Ramsey’

  • TMM-Baby Steps 1 and 2

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    Josh and I have made some significant strides with our Total Money Makeover. Since I last posted on this topic, we have funded our Baby Emergency Fund ($1000), paid off two (2!) credit cards, and made a significant payment on the third. If my calculations are correct, we should be credit card debt free by November of this year–at the very latest. Paying off our student loan debt will take a bit longer-okay, a LOT longer, but we’re determined to do it as quickly as possible. We’ve got plans for life, ya know?

    One thing Dave Ramsey says to do is to make a budget, each month, that details where every penny is going to go. The budget can be tweaked during the month, if need be, as long as both partners agree to the changes. For us, this month’s budget looks a lot different than what a normal month’s will look like due to our upcoming trip to PA and a few little events that are in the works. Even so, it’s really gratifying to have a list of expenses and to tick them off as they’re paid. We’ve had a budget in place for a few years now, but it was stagnant. I didn’t update it each month to reflect special purchases or unexpected expenses. I think that reworking our budget before the first of each month is really going to help us stay on track.

    Another thing that has been really gratifying/trying for Josh and me is using cash for most of our purchases. For us, it’s *much* harder to spend money on coffee at cafes or sandwiches on the run when we have to part with our hard-earned “fun money.” I think that’s the point, though. Having to give up this tangible thing, as opposed to swiping a card, makes you rethink your purchase. Sure, I really wanted that sweet treat from Charmers the other day, but I certainly didn’t need it. Because I had cash on me and had to really consider the consequences of my purchase, I chose not to spend my money. And I feel better for it. And thinner.

    How are the rest of you TMM-ers doing? How about an update?

  • Our Total Money Makeover

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    Like most Americans, Josh and I have quite a bit of debt to our names. Most of it comes in the form of student loans (both federal and private-damn you, Sallie Mae!) and a mortgage, but we also have a bit of credit card debt. We have very, very, very little in saving, and have not started saving for retirement yet. I don’t think our situation is unique, but that’s little consolation.

    For the past two or three years, we have *sort of* implemented (some of) Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover plan. We’ve made a bit of headway, only to make more mistakes. This time, after sitting down with our budget, we’ve decided that we’re going to dive in; not half-assed like in the past, but, uhm, full-assed, if you will.

    I borrowed The Total Money Makeover from the library earlier this week, and I’m blowing through it. Josh is going to start reading it soon as well. I’m really glad we’re on the same financial page, and I’m looking forward to having “financial peace” one day… hopefully in the not too distant future.

    I’m having some internal conflict regarding staying at home. It is NOT something I want to give up, and beyond that, I don’t think I have the earning potential to offset childcare costs. Additionally, I don’t want to miss out on this time with Jude. I don’t think it’s something I’m willing to sacrifice. It sounds silly to say it this way, but professionally, I finally feel fulfilled. I dig this mothering thing. I even dig “keeping house” and cooking. I don’t contribute (much) financially to our family, but I honestly feel that what I do contribute is priceless (though I could come up with a figure if someone would like to offer to finance my work!). Working opposite Josh is a nice idea, but with the very inconsistent schedule of a church worker, it makes that prospect nearly impossible. For now I’m going to focus on cutting our food costs where I can, finding items to sell, and keeping a really close eye on our day-to-day purchases. I’m also going to add a level of accountability to our spending/saving/debt payoff by writing about our journey to financial peace here. Hopefully my web guy (read: Josh) will add a “Total Money Makeover” category to my right-hand side bar for me tonight. Keep an eye out for that, and please, feel free to leave your words of encouragement in the comments section of my TMM posts!

    And I’m wondering…have any of you ever found yourselves in our position? Have you tried/been successful with Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover? Have any tips to share?